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It all started at 9:15pm
on Saturday. For the past week, I'd been doing everything from
pedicures to eating Chinese food to allowing the midwives to
strip my membranes (twice) that might start y labor. Nothing
seemed to be working and since I'd gained so much weight and
my body was starting to show signs of needing this pregnancy
to be over (high blood pressure, protein in my urine), I'd already
agreed with Sandy and Gretchen that I would try castor oil on
Monday and scheduled an induction for the Wednesday after (if
all else failed).
But back to Saturday
my husband went to a party and I put our 4-year-old daughter
to bed at 8pm. By 9pm I was lying on the couch. I felt the baby
turn abruptly and felt a warm discharge. Suddenly the realization
that it wasn't stopping hit me my water had broken! I called
the hospital and when Gretchen called back she told me to go
to the hospital. When she asked if the contractions had started
it suddenly occurred to me that I needed that to happen. I remember
asking her "they will start, won't they?". She assured
me they would. Next on the list was calling my husband. He didn't
answer his cell when I called (I later found out he'd taken it
off for the golf game and since it was on "vibrate"
noone heard it.) I ended up having him paged at the restaurant
and found him that way. I made him stay on his cell with me the
entire 10-minute ride home I just didn't want to be alone
with my thoughts as I began to think about the job in front of
me.
He arrived, packed
up Hannah and then me. We dropped Hannah at my cousins at 10pm
and proceeded to the hospital. When we arrived at the hospital,
they wheeled me to the Family Birthplace and got me settled.
My younger sister poked her head in and told me that my and my
husband's entire family (sister, mothers and fathers) were in
the waiting room. I reminded her it could be HOURS, but she said
they were settling in for the duration. My older sister, who
had helped me through my last labor and was going to be there
for this one, arrived about 20 minutes after us from Monroeville.
Since I had tested
positive for Strep, I had to be hooked up to an IV for antibiotics.
They got me hooked up and put me on the monitor for a little
while. By 11pm, I was walking circles around the halls. I'd had
some very mild contractions, but nothing much stronger than the
Braxton Hicks I'd been having for months. I had in the back of
my mind the fact that I only had 24 hours to get this baby out
from the time my water had broken, so I was a little worried.
But the walking did the trick. After about 2 hours of walking,
they'd gotten pretty strong and my legs needed a rest, so I tried
sitting on the ball, leaning on the bed and getting in the shower.
Although the shower had really been something helpful in my first
labor, I really didn't like it this time. I wanted to stand.
The labor pains were getting pretty intense, so Gretchen checked
me and said I was 5 centimeters. 5 sounded like little progress,
but she reminded me that once I got to 7, I would hit "transition"
and it would probably go pretty quickly. By 2:30am or so, I was
really feeling the baby moving down. I would lean on my sister
or husband, and the other would squeeze my hips to help relieve
the pressure. We got through another hour or so, and I felt the
need to push. Gretchen checked me and said I could. I wanted
to lay on the bed for pushing, so I got on the bed and was so
thankful to know my baby was almost here. But suddenly I was
scared. Throughout my pregnancy, everyone who saw me commented
on my size and the potential size of my baby. Suddenly the reality
of a HUGE baby was scary. I remember saying to Gretchen, once
the head was visible, "Can I do this?". She said "yes"
and I breathed a huge sigh of relief. I knew pushing was the
hard part, but knew that if Gretchen said I could do it, then
I could do it. And everyone there was so helpful. So, with the
encouragement of Gretchen, my sister and husband, and a wonderful
nurse, I pushed Jack Patrick Florey out at 4:08am on Sunday,
October 7. Only 7 hours of labor, from my water breaking to him
in my arms. I felt so relieved!!! He latched on right away and
within 20 minutes my (very sleepy) family was meeting our newest
member.
Now, 4 weeks later,
I know my two sweet children are gifts from God, but the wonderful,
natural experiences I have in labor and delivery are gifts from
the Midwives. Thanks to Gretchen, Sandy and Sue!!!
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