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Like it or not,
the time must come when we must let our children learn to take
care of themselves.
Once children become
somewhat independent at about age 5, their risk for injury rises
sharply. Between the ages of 6 and 12, more than half on all
deaths, are caused by unintentional injuries. Burns, car crashes,
head injuries from falling from skateboards, the list goes on
and on. Anyone who has children in this age bracket know that
they are always great explorers. Whether it is flying down the
street on a bicycle or flying down a ski slope, these children
know no fear.It is very important that children are given safety
guidelines and parents must make sure that these guidelines are
being followed. As children continue to grow into teens, they
should still have these safety rules reinforced, as parents are
still not out of the woods. If parents make a good effort to
instill good health and safety habits it can often offset peer
pressure. As children start spending more and more time with
friends nd undergo physiological changes that make them an adult,
they tend to engage in risk taking behavior in spite of knowing
better. Accidents are the highest risk for teens, mostly from
motor vehicles.Teens often think they know more than their parents.
But this does not absolve parents from their role to protect
their children, even from themselves!! The same rules that we
taught them as preteens continues to apply throughout the teen
years. Do not assume that they do not longer need to be reminded.
The constant encouragement and insistence of loving parents is
extremely important.The teen years are also when habits are being
formed that will either help or harm them in the long term. If
you have not reinforced , through your own behaviors, those habits
you want for your children to develop, it is difficult to expect
them to do it. This takes time and commitment. This is a gift
to your child and it does require a daily commitment. It requires
parents to know what their child's risk factors are, what they
are doing and who they are doing it with. Various concerns will
change with the age of the child. Although the investment of
time and emotion is significant, the rewards speak for themselves.
Remember to Keep it up and Persevere! You can do it!!
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