A lot of moms have decided that they would like to have a say in their childbirth experience and have created birth plans to serve that purpose. 

Such a plan is simple and a non confrontational way for you to make your preferences for your pregnancy and birth clear to everyone who will be with you on the big day.  There are so many choices to make and things to consider, from whether or not you want to use medications and how long you wish to stay after birth.  Making your voice heard is very important.  A birth plan discusses your preferences and will never override medically necessary procedures.  Gretchen and Sandy are happy to have your input and are pleased that you have taken the time to put together a birth plan.  It demonstrates that you have educated yourself and that you are interested in taking an active role in your pregnancy and birth.  A birth plan is a statement of preferences , not a binding contract.  If you change your mind about something, those wishes will be respected.  Even the best birth plan will not take place of self education or good communication with your midwife, but it may help you move a few steps forward on the way to a rewarding birth experience and fond memories of your child's entry into the world.

Jan Mallak

Birth Doula & Childbirth Educator